Dakhotiyapi · Chapter 5

Mitákuye Oyásʼiŋ

All My Relations — Values, Prayer & the Sacred in Dakota
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Setting the Scene

Summer arrives. The tiyóšpaye gathers for a ceremony honoring those who have passed. Wakíŋyaŋ is asked to help prepare the prayer space. He learns that the most important Dakota phrases are not everyday words — they are expressions of relationship, gratitude, and the sacred.

1 The Circle Forms

Elders begin to form a circle as the fire is lit. Someone begins a low song. Wakíŋyaŋ sits at the edge and listens. He catches one phrase repeated again and again: Mitákuye oyásʼiŋ

Mitákuye oyásʼiŋ
mee-TAH-koo-yeh oh-YAH-s'eeŋ
All my relations
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— all my relations.

Mitákuye OyásʼiŋAll my relations — everything is connected
2 What "All My Relations" Means

Mitákuye oyásʼiŋ

Mitákuye oyásʼiŋ
mee-TAH-koo-yeh oh-YAH-s'eeŋ
All my relations
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does not mean family alone. It means every being — people, animals, plants, sky, water. When you say it, you are saying: I know that I am not alone and never have been.

3 The Four Virtues

Grandmother names the four Dakota virtues: wóohola

wóohola
woh-OH-hoh-lah
Respect
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— respect; wóčhantognaka
wóčhantognaka
woh-chaŋ-TOG-nah-kah
Generosity
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— generosity; wówaúŋšila
wówaúŋšila
woh-wah-OOŋ-shee-lah
Compassion
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— compassion; wóksape
wóksape
woh-KSAH-peh
Wisdom
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— wisdom. She says: these are not rules. They are a direction for living.

4 Prayer and Language

The ceremony begins with words Wakíŋyaŋ does not fully understand, but he understands the tone — careful, slow, grateful. His uncle tells him: prayer in Dakota was never asking for things. Wóčhekiye

Wóčhekiye
woh-CHEH-kee-yeh
Prayer / speaking in relationship
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— prayer — means "to speak in relationship with."

5 Wakȟáŋ Tȟáŋka

Wakȟáŋ Tȟáŋka

Wakȟáŋ Tȟáŋka
wah-KHAŊ THAŊ-kah
Great Mystery / Great Spirit
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— Great Mystery, or Great Spirit. Wakȟáŋ
Wakȟáŋ
wah-KHAŊ
Sacred / mysterious / powerful
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means sacred, mysterious, powerful. Tȟáŋka
Tȟáŋka
THAŊ-kah
Great / large
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means great or large. Wakíŋyaŋ writes it down. It is not a proper noun in the Western sense — it describes a quality of all things.

6 Speaking with Care

After the ceremony, grandmother explains: some words should only be said at the right time, in the right place. Čhaŋtéčhiyuza

Čhaŋtéčhiyuza
chaŋ-TAY-chee-yoo-zah
Hold a ceremony / hold it in your heart
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— hold a ceremony / hold it in your heart. Language is not decoration; it has power.

7 Giving Thanks

The wópila feast begins. Wakíŋyaŋ says to each elder: Pidámayaye.

Pidámayaye.
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— Thank you. An elder responds: Léčhaŋl ečhúŋhpi kiŋ waštéčhila.
Léčhaŋl ečhúŋhpi kiŋ waštéčhila.
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— I love what we do here. The phrase carries three verbs at once.

WóčhekiyePrayer — speaking in relationship
8 Carrying the Words

That night Wakíŋyaŋ sits and holds the phrase Mitákuye oyásʼiŋ

Mitákuye oyásʼiŋ
mee-TAH-koo-yeh oh-YAH-s'eeŋ
All my relations
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in his mind. It does not feel like a foreign word anymore. It feels like a door. Every language has words that are also whole philosophies.

What This Story Teaches Us
Story MomentWhat We NoticeLanguage Focus
Circle forms for ceremonyMitákuye oyásʼiŋ = all relations (people, nature, sky)Mitákuye oyásʼiŋ
Grandmother names four virtuesWóohola / wóčhantognaka / wówaúŋšila / wóksapeFour virtues vocabulary
Uncle explains prayer meaningWóčhekiye = speaking in relationship, not askingWóčhekiye
Wakȟáŋ Tȟáŋka exploredWakȟáŋ = sacred/mysterious; Tȟáŋka = greatWakȟáŋ Tȟáŋka
Feast and thanksPidámayaye = thank you (formal/full form)Pidámayaye
Key Phrases — Click to Hear
Mitákuye oyásʼiŋ
All my relations
/mee-TAH-koo-yeh oh-YAH-s'een/
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Wóohola
Respect
/woh-OH-hoh-lah/
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Wóčhantognaka
Generosity
/woh-chahn-TOG-nah-kah/
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Wakȟáŋ Tȟáŋka
Great Mystery / Great Spirit
/wah-KHAHN THAHN-kah/
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Pidámayaye
Thank you
/pee-DAH-mah-yah-yeh/
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